Dependency, Need for Approval

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Saying 'no' to everything also leads to a person being known as a cranky and uncooperative person. It is necessary to learn to say yes when appropriate and no when appropriate. 'Yes' and 'no' are the doors of our lives: We should open the door to the things we want to come into our lives and close the door to the things we don't want.

Alcohol and substance addiction is of course one of the most serious causes of depression, but what we mean here is addiction to people.

Of course, we all need productive loving exchanges. We all want to love and be loved.

But some people cannot do anything without their mothers, brothers WhatsApp Number List or sisters, or friends. There are many people who cannot enjoy making tea or reading a book alone at home, who absolutely need the presence of another person, who do not enjoy going out the door alone, and who cannot choose a pair of shoes without having a relative with them.



Some people do not always need someone's 'physical' presence. But they expect everyone else to approve and appreciate everything they do. For them, the opinions of others are important, not their own. They cannot make decisions on their own. In order not to lose the love and support of their loved ones, they do not even oppose ideas they do not agree with.

For addicts, events such as divorce and the death of a mother are disasters. They have a hard time coping with these. Some start looking for another lover when they start to fear that their relationship with the opposite sex will end, but when they find someone new, they may break up with the previous one.

Diffidence
A bilingual associate professor at the faculty of medicine could say, "I have not achieved anything in my life," yet he was shown as an example of a successful person by those around him.